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[cacomistle]

always contemplating whether there is a point in pursuing GIRLS! if my plan is to move to Japan in 2 years when I graduate

[Jace]

always contemplating whether there is a point in pursuing GIRLS! if my plan is to move to Japan in 2 years when I graduate

Perhaps the point could be just simple fun, or even self-exploration. For example, in my most legendary of legendary GIRLS! stories, one of the first things I learned about the P.Y.T. was that she was moving to Switzerland in 30 days time from the events of the post. This did not deter us from hanging out and having fun within those thirty days. It was a cherished time in my life that I still think very fondly on, and we are still friends.

I really wish sometimes that I had a "Shizz name" that was different from my actual name. This post in this thread, which she covertly read, was really the beginning of the long end of my most recent relationship, and god, do I fucking miss it/her. I cry almost every moment that I'm alone every day, wishing that we were still together. It's getting worse day by day. Now I basically wake up, start crying, busy myself with projects or hangouts, projects and hangouts end, I walk home crying in the middle of the street and sit in bed waiting to stop crying, then sleep; repeat. Looking back at the post now, though, it seems strange to me how jealous and upset she got over it. It seems obvious that the point of the post is "I love this girl (real girlfriend and not girl in silly dream) and I want to stay with her."

[the Wozz]

barf material:

Spoiler

I am falling for someone I already love, and she feels the same way. It's pretty cool

[Demonstray]

The Wozz's contentment is the ULTIMATE Wozzle.

[the Wozz]

Sorry, not all my GIRLS! posts can't be about how I struck out in the most hilarious ways.

[Demonstray]

Sorry, not all my GIRLS! posts can't be about how I struck out in the most hilarious ways.

I don't think Wozzles will ever be as effective now that I know that you sometimes have positive emotions.

[cetera]

I cry almost every moment that I'm alone every day, wishing that we were still together. It's getting worse day by day. Now I basically wake up, start crying, busy myself with projects or hangouts, projects and hangouts end, I walk home crying in the middle of the street and sit in bed waiting to stop crying, then sleep; repeat.

this is like, the most extreme case of crying i have ever heard of. my question is, are you crying so much because she was that perfect for you? or because you hate to be alone that much? or because you have a chemical imbalance?

if i was crying that much over someone, i'd go right back to them, and damn the consequences. i went back to my recent ex after breaking it with her because even though my logic was sound, i couldn't get her good things out of my head. i don't regret going back to her when i did. despite how mine turned out, yours doesn't have to. her not handling of that post is a very chick-flick kind of bump in a relationship. i'm not sure how julia roberts would solve this one, but i know she'd take the guy back after she got over her emotions and saw that he really loved her.

i kind of get the sense that you cut her loose to spare her the life of dating a budding rock star. sorry if i'm wrong but i've not collected enough info if you've dropped it. i can't believe that her solution to that situation would be to ask you to give up your dreams. if she can't handle it, then it's doomed to fail. but maybe cutting yourself out preemptively was wrong for you as well. maybe going for a clean break before anybody got hurt ended up depriving you more of your needs than you even realized. maybe you need to risk the bad end. i've had the bad end several times and it seems to hurt less than what you are going through.

[Klatrymadon]

*maddeningly useless internet hugs*

[Shervz0r]

made an eharmony profile... my "matches" don't seem to have much in common with me. In fact, Im pretty sure at least 70% of them would hate my guts.

maybe I should try a normal dating site.

NOOOooooooooooooo......!!!

Ditch that awful site, please! eharmony is TERRIBLE

[Rize]

made an eharmony profile... my "matches" don't seem to have much in common with me. In fact, Im pretty sure at least 70% of them would hate my guts.

maybe I should try a normal dating site.

NOOOooooooooooooo......!!!

Ditch that awful site, please! eharmony is TERRIBLE

haha, really so bad? any particular reason? the women are just too insane perhaps, looking for the perfect guy?

[Shervz0r]

made an eharmony profile... my "matches" don't seem to have much in common with me. In fact, Im pretty sure at least 70% of them would hate my guts.

maybe I should try a normal dating site.

NOOOooooooooooooo......!!!

Ditch that awful site, please! eharmony is TERRIBLE

haha, really so bad? any particular reason? the women are just too insane perhaps, looking for the perfect guy?

Well, I have personal issues with the founder's anti-homosexual stance. That said, before I knew that and when I used the site I found that it led to HORRIBLE matching. I don't like being fed who I am supposed to match up with best, I prefer to find them through key word searches or something a little more transparent.

[jmr]

I cry almost every moment that I'm alone every day, wishing that we were still together. It's getting worse day by day. Now I basically wake up, start crying, busy myself with projects or hangouts, projects and hangouts end, I walk home crying in the middle of the street and sit in bed waiting to stop crying, then sleep; repeat.

This is so contrary to the mental image I have of you that it scares me.

[urvile]

Well Jace if you follow the urvile dating plan, after your next relationship you'll never want to date again

Seriously, I think I'm done. Whatever happiness I got out my two real relationships wasn't nearly worth all the shit I've been through. Especially after this last one. I just don't care anymore. If I never date again or even have sex, so be it. If it means having some goddamn peace in my life it sounds like a good deal.

One of these days I'll talk about it in more detail but if you went through the year I just had you probably wouldn't want anything to do with anybody ever again

[cacomistle]

if you want, you can get your name on here changed

[urvile]

Oh I'm not going to that far with it. Figure the mods would have my back if the drama came here