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#31756 Beef-Clef


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Posted 10 August 2018 - 08:11 PM

I have no idea what she's actually like, I'm only "damning" one persons account of another person's behavior. The last thing you should do at a new job is immediately set up all the conditions for not only taking yourself down but someone else as well. Not to mention the whole continuously flirting with a married man while being married yourself (again.. at work). I got enough experience to know that type of person, male or female, is not worth pursuing unless you want to deal with big dramatic problems down the road. I'm not saying all people who behave this way are shitty at relationships, just all the one I've been exposed to in one way or another. 

Being successful and happy in relationships, even ones that ultimately fail, has a lot to do with avoiding blaring red flags, and in turn avoiding toxic people, regardless of how nice they are, or how easily they laugh at your jokes, or how attractive they are, or how good they make you feel under certain very unhealthy conditions.

I avoided these types of women even when I was single, I can't even imagine giving into this shit with a kid on the line. And, assuming she knows about Slu's kid, she should back off on her own and realize the two of them might be on the road to breaking up a family. Even if someone's marriage is completely failing, let it fail on its own without inserting yourself as a reason for it, again, especially with a child's future on the line.

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Posted 11 August 2018 - 01:04 AM


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Posted 11 August 2018 - 01:43 AM

Pretty confident this is the most intense tinder profile of all time

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#31759 slu973


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Posted 11 August 2018 - 07:10 AM

holy god.


some of the responses in this thread have hit so close to the heart that its gotten me emotional.


Many of them were eye-opening, to say the least.  But, that's what I came here for.  Perspective.  Because I didn't have any, before making my post.


I guess I'm not as smart as I thought I was.  I let it go too far.  Got some real smart friends here.  Helped to talk me off the ledge.


Need to move forward.  We all only have one shot at this, right?  Gotta make the right decisions.


I wish I could hug every one of you

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Posted 11 August 2018 - 07:19 AM

Invest all this energy in making your wife laugh instead. Do you still enjoy doing that? ;)
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Kain, only you can mention your mother's death and your new awesome MMX NES rom hack in one post... so condolences :( and high five :o

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Posted 11 August 2018 - 09:15 AM


this goes for all of you
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Posted 11 August 2018 - 12:45 PM

Hm. I may have missed something. Or maybe my standards are foggier. But it doesn't look to *me* like old Slu Pickles here has crossed a sort of line where there's a useful conversation to be had with his wife. But I also don't think Homer was a bad guy for letting things get as far as they did with Mindy; what was important was that, in the long run, he did the right thing. I think that if you slow your roll with your Mindy and make some effort to reconnect with your wife, all's good.
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#31763 Valence


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Posted 11 August 2018 - 05:56 PM

Dogg that is some serious incel mindset shit. Like if people have actually told you that, that’s some shit-brain on their part, but it shouldn’t excuse that you too have got some shit brain going on.


Please do not lump me in with those fucking assholes. I in no way blame women for my problems; it's completely and 100% my fault that I am a worthless, unfuckable piece of shit, and these things aren't the product of my mind, women have literally told me those things, on numerous occasions. 


I also don't hate or disparage sex workers (or porn stars), and honestly, most people don't but they do hate the men that necessitate their occupation and use their services, which is something that I have been told and have gleaned from conversations with others in the past, which is one of the many reasons why I haven't gone that route. If I did, I definitely wouldn't do so illegally, and would go to a place where it was legal, regulated and safe, for everyone involved. 


Regardless, thank you for everyone's perspectives, I just don't know what to do, but I don't want to die alone or not experience sex at least once before I go.

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#31764 TV's Frink

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Posted Yesterday, 08:51 AM

I thought "incel" was some terrorist thing.

Although having now read about it and a few of the mass murders that are related, I guess it kinda is.
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#31765 kareshi


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Posted Yesterday, 05:31 PM

“The call of the void” - People think of it when they have a flash of a thought like “What if I were to jump off this balcony?” or “What if I steered into that tree?” But it’s also a call to ruin something good in your life, maybe because you feel like it’s too good for you, like you don’t deserve it. We all gotta fight it. You deserve the good things you already have!
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Reading: "Don Quixote" by Cervantes

#31766 C.C. Z28

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Posted Yesterday, 05:47 PM

Yes, NEVER destroy something good just because you feel you might not deserve it. It will hurt others that didn't do anything wrong.

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