Posted 22 October 2018 - 03:00 PM
Dogg that is some serious incel mindset shit. Like if people have actually told you that, that’s some shit-brain on their part, but it shouldn’t excuse that you too have got some shit brain going on.
Please do not lump me in with those fucking assholes. I in no way blame women for my problems; it's completely and 100% my fault that I am a worthless, unfuckable piece of shit, and these things aren't the product of my mind, women have literally told me those things, on numerous occasions.
I also don't hate or disparage sex workers (or porn stars), and honestly, most people don't but they do hate the men that necessitate their occupation and use their services, which is something that I have been told and have gleaned from conversations with others in the past, which is one of the many reasons why I haven't gone that route. If I did, I definitely wouldn't do so illegally, and would go to a place where it was legal, regulated and safe, for everyone involved.
Regardless, thank you for everyone's perspectives, I just don't know what to do, but I don't want to die alone or not experience sex at least once before I go.
OK first of all dude - you're ignoring a major point of Robby's here - if people have told you these things, they are Grade-A CHUD shitbags that are not worth your time. I don't think italics and hyperbole are accurately getting my point across enough yet, so let me reiterate: I would not give these people the time of day. I would not accept $1,000 from them. Given the choice between going on a dream trip to Tokyo with one of them or touring a shit-filled, sweltering Wal Mart in southern Louisiana with ten unshowered racists covered in gaping wounds, I would choose the racists. I don't know what your situation is, but anyone that would even utter that to you is garbage.
Second, yes, it is totally the product of your mind. You have a choice every time someone interacts with you to either internalize it, or continue living your life - and you've internalized the words of these "many women" and other experiences of yours as gospel. Same with your idea that sex workers hate the men they work with - that's an awfully sweeping opinion over a huge, multifaceted issue with an entire gamut of people inside it from scum to the simply lonely on the men's side and the exploited to the empowered on the women's, and all sorts of others. An idea that you seem to have based on a few conversations and life anecdotes.
My point is - you are worth more than you think you are. Before you want to (healthily) tackle your desire to experience sex, you need to confront a lot of other issues with how your're forming your thoughts on the matter and the destructive thoughts about yourself. The incel mindset shit isn't about whether you blame women, it's placing this much value, stress, and anxiety on sex in the first place and convincing yourself that you are unworthy of pretty much everything, along with taking hard-line opinions about the dynamics involved based on a very limited set of experience. You deserve better people in your life than that, and you deserve to value yourself more than that.
Wizwars, about the bush hogging. Just wet and part my man. Give that bush the Moses treatment and head for the Promised Land.
Posted 25 October 2018 - 11:49 AM
My ex I couldn't shut up about back in the day, when she broke it off for the last time told me she was disgusted to sleep next to me. I'm gonna feel that to the grave.
There was a trending topic on reddit today about women comforting their men, and I couldn't stop crying for a few minutes. I'm never going to be that happy and at peace again, even if was just a very brief fleeting moment.
That said, if all goes well with this urology crap I'm determined to have a lady in my life in some capacity soon. I hope.
THIS PCB IS NOT KILLING
EVERY FOREIGN FOOD IS A LIE.
“well, if you get kidnapped and sent down a river for real, yeah, they probably aren’t gonna give you any trail mix.”
Posted 03 November 2018 - 03:41 PM
Posted 03 November 2018 - 05:09 PM
Jace is correct on all fronts there. Those things hurt and sting, but it doesn't mean that they're definitive of you. My ex called me a sociopath once, and it legit took me years to believe otherwise.
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