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[Kirby Pufocia]

My girl feels really gross when she hasn't shaved her legs in awhile, and thinks I'm weird because I don't care either way.

[Pongball]

I think women have higher standards for what makes a woman beautiful than men do. For example:



Any size 12 girl you meet will probably tell you she wants to lose weight. Edit: oh yeah, apparently those are British sizes. US sizes are all -2, I think.

[Wizwars]

but most women don't grow nearly as much body hair as men. of course there are guys that have no body hair because they're asian or whatever but you know.

She'll slap me for saying this, but my girlfriend grows more body hair than I do. Then again, I have shit for body hair, but still. And I don't get on her about shaving her legs either, which she only tends to do whenever she's going to the beach or knows she's gonna be wearing shorts. It doesn't bother me at all when her legs are hairy, though I do honestly prefer the feel of them when they're smooth and freshly shaved.

The only thing that I ever request regarding body hair is that if oral sex is expected of me, then nicely trimmed pubes that aren't going to be getting up my nose and tickling my face is expected of her. Other guys opinions?

Edit: Also, goddamn! I would so wreck Caroline's shit.

[Spookmeister C]

I would do them all.

Did I mention I have a date this Saturday?

Hmmm so yea, this didn't happen. Major lack of communication today, and as a result I pretty much got stood up.
So I'm gonna keep my pjs on watch the Phillies lose then play Bionic Commando all night instead.
If I were a drinker, I would be drinking a lot right now.

[raubhimself]

Yeah all those chicks are pretty good looking. The one in the middle looks like Chan Marshall though so boner points to her.

I ain't got squat for body hair either, but it don't bother me much.

[arise_shine]

I happen to LOVE a little bit of chub and/or body hair on a woman. Not a lot, but some. In a natural, non-chalant kinda way. Yeah.

[Pongball]

The funny thing about that picture is that other than displaying a more realistic variety of body sizes, it's really not giving a more realistic image of beauty than any picture you would see in a typical magazine ad or whatever. I mean, all three girls are completely shaven (I don't even think they have arm hair), made up, and most likely airbrushed head to toe. None of them have any blemishes, moles, wrinkles, razor bumps, cellulite, uneven pigmentation, or any other skin imperfections. And their teeth are white as pearls.

[kareshi]

I've been seeing this GIRL for 100 months as of today. <3

99 months ago:

[arise_shine]

I've been seeing this GIRL for 100 months as of today. <3

Congrats!

[zyko]

the funny thing about the 3 girls is that i find them all butherfaces... if i cover their faces, i'd unhesitatingly do em all in varied conformations. if i take in the whole picture, i surprisingly find that i probably wouldn't touch girl 1 or girl 3... girl 2 being an exception cuz BAMBOOZLE BABY YEA!

which also goes to show that really, it isn't the body that seals the deal for me (and probably a lot of other men). size 16 with size 8's face would be a dream come true. size 8 with size 12's face would have me running for the jr. market looking to stock up on the good ol' english or md 20 20. BUTHERFACE to the max, guys, wtf (*beautybeingintheeyeofthebeholder aside)

it's unfortunate that girls have to go through what they do with social generalizations of beauty and sexiness. it tinkers with their heads in a way so detrimental, i think, that it contributes greatly to most of the irritating features a lot of guys will say they find in women. if you remove the perceived insecurity, you remove most of the drama. i can't begin to tell you how many times i've mortally wounded a girl for noticing another girl whom she perceived to be more attractive than her. it's just about the most lose-lose scenario a guy can find himself in when he attempts to navigate the resulting chernobyl. for one, usually, the other girl is, in fact, hotter. secondly, it doesn't matter for the guy because usually he can't do anything about the other girl anyways so its beside the point. its like going to the amusement park or a baseball game and being chastised for noticing all the stunning girls walking around. it's ridiculous. and honestly, i don't buy the bullshit that it's stemmed in an infedelity thing as that's just hogwash, too. though i admit to have experienced the exceptions to the rule (oops hehe), it isn't as though you can ditch your girl to hook up with the other girl in some stadium stairwell while your girl is impatiently waiting for you to come back with concessions. i mean, how often does that really realistically happen? but the paranoia that it might is overwhelming.

what is this big ol' rant about? well, if women weren't so concerned with how OTHER women looked, we wouldn't be talking about any of this i don't care if a girl is the 8, 12, 16... if she's dumb as hell and uglier than gollum, i won't hit it anyways (not anymore, at least). SO STOP OBSESSING OVER FITTING INTO THE DAMN 8 AND BRING YOUR RIDICULOUS OVERBEARING, DISRUPTING AND DISTORTED HIGH STANDARDS DOWN!! it isn't about whether you fit or not, girls.... it's about whether or not I DO!

ok, that was my rant. back to boxing

[urvile]

Pongball for the win! Also:

I've found that having hairy legs tends to weed out the douchebags. I'm not saying that every guy that objects to hairy legs is a douchebag, but if that is a dealbreaker for a guy, THAT would be a dealbreaker for me. Guys who don't object tend to be more laid back about other stuff, too, although they may fart on you.

Are we in the same dimension? LOL. I don't think I could have gotten away with that with anyone I dated, and I think my ex would have literally knifed me. She couldn't even handle me farting around her.

[mshell]

And I don't get on her about shaving her legs either, which she only tends to do whenever she's going to the beach or knows she's gonna be wearing shorts. It doesn't bother me at all when her legs are hairy, though I do honestly prefer the feel of them when they're smooth and freshly shaved.

The only thing that I ever request regarding body hair is that if oral sex is expected of me, then nicely trimmed pubes that aren't going to be getting up my nose and tickling my face is expected of her. Other guys opinions?

Fair is fair. I don't like being asked to shave or wax my pubes, but trimming is fair. If you don't groom it it gets kind of. . . scary. The only guy who ever asked me to wax was a huge douchebag.

[Shervz0r]

I really don't see what the big deal is about having a significant other request that you do something that they find more appealing. In the past I've had requests to trim certain areas or wear certain clothes to which I've complied because I believed that it would be more comfortable and attractive to the other person.

I guess we all draw the line somewhere; I'm not going to get my back waxed on my own volition, but if it REALLY bothered my partner and if she made that clear to me, then I would certainly consider doing it (it totally depends how deep the relationship is). It just seems silly to make such a broad generalization...then again, I know I've felt that way in the past.

Spook man, so sorry to hear that I'll toast a glass to you.

[Wizwars]

I really don't see what the big deal is about having a significant other request that you do something that they find more appealing. In the past I've had requests to trim certain areas or wear certain clothes to which I've complied because I believed that it would be more comfortable and attractive to the other person.

I guess we all draw the line somewhere; I'm not going to get my back waxed on my own volition, but if it REALLY bothered my partner and if she made that clear to me, then I would certainly consider doing it (it totally depends how deep the relationship is). It just seems silly to make such a broad generalization...then again, I know I've felt that way in the past.

Spook man, so sorry to hear that I'll toast a glass to you.

I completely agree with this...Let me use myself as an example, last summer I was rockin' this look, and Steph wasn't diggin' it. At all. And she let me know "Hey, I don't really dig long hair on a guy, and the neckbeard isn't my thing either" (not an exact quote, I'm summing up a couple different conversations actually). So I got a haircut and I shaved. It wasn't that big of a deal. Hell, I've wanted to have long hair since the first time I saw a Metallica video on MTV in the early 90s, but the woman I love doesn't find that attractive, so it's a sacrifice I'm willing to make so that she is a bit happier. I'm also fine with her giving quite a bit of input into the clothes I wear because really, I'm not looking at myself much aside from random glances in the mirror daily, aside from comfort it really doesn't matter to me what I wear, so if there is something that she thinks I look good in, I'll wear it. But it also applies the other way because Steph rarely buys clothes that do not get my seal of approval, and before doing something drastic like dying her hair red made sure to get my opinion on it first.

[TransINSANO]

I used to date a girl that wouldn't let me grow facial hair, now I'm dating one that won't let me shave it. That's what you call trading up, friends.