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[Kirby Pufocia]

Back from coffee. I think it went well, it's just a question of how well. Happy to catch up with an old friend tho.

Mostly I'll be glad if I actually made some coherent sentences, mainly when I talk I tend to ramble and get off topic and lose what I was going to say

Edit: My GIRLS updates are boring. I should probably fix this, but I suffer the curse of the nice guy

That reminds me, I saw Aeris again at Katsucon. She didn't remember me but you seem to have made an impression.

[ShawnPhase]

im going to sweden real soon to be with wire, my girl.

[Jacki O.]

I say make a move regardless of what signs they give. If they take it the wrong way, then who cares? That's confidence.

This. This is why the "nice guy" thing is a myth. "Nice guys finish last" or whatever isn't about being nice; it's about being passive where assertiveness is warranted. You can assert and identify yourself as an emotional and/or sexual human being and still be a nice, good person.

truth

[Quezo]

I say make a move regardless of what signs they give. If they take it the wrong way, then who cares? That's confidence.

This. This is why the "nice guy" thing is a myth. "Nice guys finish last" or whatever isn't about being nice; it's about being passive where assertiveness is warranted. You can assert and identify yourself as an emotional and/or sexual human being and still be a nice, good person.

truth

Agreed

[pingosimon]

Some girls are bitches, though, and think that if you are attracted to then, you are creepy.

[cetera]

Girls are bitches, they’re like stitches, you pull them out and then they open up.
So many birds are after me, they're like, "Hey cetera, give me back my purse! I'm gonna come and get you!"
And i'm like "Why don't you just fuckin’ relax?"
one time i brought a girl back to my house and within twelve minutes, she was giving me a gobby.

[BornInCrimson]

Alright, given all that and something a coworker said earlier, I'll try a more forward approach. I'm not sure she digs the military thing tho. Maybe since we had a past a decade and a half ago she'd be down for the rented movies thing, possibly after a dinner.

That reminds me, I saw Aeris again at Katsucon. She didn't remember me but you seem to have made an impression.

That's nice to hear at least. Too bad she's half a continent away and about 10 years younger.

[Jacki O.]

Some girls are bitches, though, and think that if you are attracted to then, you are creepy.

those bitches are fucked up!

hater nation! have you had a bad experience lately?

yah and some dudes are assholes and think that if they make eye contact with you, they think you want to talk to them. those dudes are creepy.

[mshell]

Some girls are bitches, though, and think that if you are attracted to then, you are creepy.

those bitches are fucked up!

hater nation! have you had a bad experience lately?

yah and some dudes are assholes and think that if they make eye contact with you, they think you want to talk to them. those dudes are creepy.

truth. keep in mind, girls that think you're creepy if you're attracted to them have probably been hurt by men before and have a hard time trusting men. Just like how screwed up men get too controlling because they've probably been hurt by people who were really manipulative or controlling with them in the past.
people gots' problems sometimes. That doesn't mean some men or women are inherently creepy for no reason, it just means they have problems.

[weener]

Sometimes, though, even nice women just have no desire to be hit on.

[cetera]

maybe she thought pirates still rape often

[Ryan8bit]

Some girls are bitches, though, and think that if you are attracted to then, you are creepy.

What does it matter what they think though? Especially if they're a bitch? It's best not to concern yourself with such people, but if you must, then that's the time to be an asshole.

[pingosimon]

Wise words!

I just think it's funny how, no matter how inherently "creepy" a guy is, what matters is how they act.

For example, I could be thinking, "holy shit, that girl is hot, I want to eat her out now." If I said that to her, she'd think I was creepy. If I hid my desire from her, made small talk, hung out with her, then ate her out, she wouldn't think it was creepy. Either way, my intentions were the same, but in one case I hid them.

I wouldn't have gotten my last girlfriend if I hadn't intentionally avoided being "creepy."

[Spookmeister C]

hahah that reminds me of this

[Jacki O.]

Wise words!

I just think it's funny how, no matter how inherently "creepy" a guy is, what matters is how they act.

For example, I could be thinking, "holy shit, that girl is hot, I want to eat her out now." If I said that to her, she'd think I was creepy. If I hid my desire from her, made small talk, hung out with her, then ate her out, she wouldn't think it was creepy. Either way, my intentions were the same, but in one case I hid them.

I wouldn't have gotten my last girlfriend if I hadn't intentionally avoided being "creepy."

i think that's true for ladies too. i have to hide my desires when i am courting a guy, i can't just say "hi my name's jacki, i want to sit on your face and also have a meaningful relationship with you that will result in children. Would you like to move in with me in a year?"

instead i hide my desire and say "hi my name's jacki, i want to sit on your face"

plus, i hate to ruin it for you, but women know why you are making small talk and hanging out, you're secret desires are not that secret.

keep up the eating out though, chicks love that.