I just think it's funny how, no matter how inherently "creepy" a guy is, what matters is how they act.
For example, I could be thinking, "holy shit, that girl is hot, I want to eat her out now." If I said that to her, she'd think I was creepy. If I hid my desire from her, made small talk, hung out with her, then ate her out, she wouldn't think it was creepy. Either way, my intentions were the same, but in one case I hid them.
I wouldn't have gotten my last girlfriend if I hadn't intentionally avoided being "creepy."
i think that's true for ladies too. i have to hide my desires when i am courting a guy, i can't just say "hi my name's jacki, i want to sit on your face and also have a meaningful relationship with you that will result in children. Would you like to move in with me in a year?"
instead i hide my desire and say "hi my name's jacki, i want to sit on your face"
plus, i hate to ruin it for you, but women know why you are making small talk and hanging out, you're secret desires are not that secret.
keep up the eating out though, chicks love that.