Shizz Coming Out Thread
Started by DragonBurk, Sep 24 2011 12:43 PM
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Posted 24 September 2011 - 02:28 PM
I hate to tell you this, but being gay or hetero is kinda tame: we have and accept Nario here on the Shizz pretty well, so I wouldn't worry! 
But seriously, Bucky came out before, and I'm sure no one stopped cuddling him for that. The Shizz is pretty much a gay buffet all around anyway, in case you didn't notice!
but good on you that your mom took it well, good luck with the rest of your family!
But seriously, Bucky came out before, and I'm sure no one stopped cuddling him for that. The Shizz is pretty much a gay buffet all around anyway, in case you didn't notice!
but good on you that your mom took it well, good luck with the rest of your family!
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Posted 24 September 2011 - 02:30 PM
Very proud of you dude. And if this is the official coming out thread, what the fuck:
Wizwars is a one hundred percent bisexual male. Maybe five or six people in my world know this. I've made little hints at it, I think I mentioned my gender confusion issues and being slightly attracted to men here but never full out admitted it until recently. Which is weird because I have a really accepting family and a sister who was in a relationship with a woman for a few years. Yet I felt weird about telling them.
Like DB I've known forever, and in reality for a long time I thought I was gay because it took quite a while before I was attracted to girls, and the majority of my early life crushes were on guys. But I guess I also come at it from a different angle, I've never really felt "in place" as a guy. The best way I can describe it is that for most of my life I've mentally felt like a bisexual chick that somehow ended up biologically being a dude. I've only recently started really reading about transgender / gender queer stuff so I'm not really sure where I technically "fit in" with anything or if I really even give a shit about fitting in. I've accepted that I'm just different and I enjoy it.
I've kept this shit to myself for a really, really long time and thus I've never actually opened myself up to the possibility of dating men and have always admired from afar. So I'm definitely looking forward to opening up a new chapter in life.
Wizwars is a one hundred percent bisexual male. Maybe five or six people in my world know this. I've made little hints at it, I think I mentioned my gender confusion issues and being slightly attracted to men here but never full out admitted it until recently. Which is weird because I have a really accepting family and a sister who was in a relationship with a woman for a few years. Yet I felt weird about telling them.
Like DB I've known forever, and in reality for a long time I thought I was gay because it took quite a while before I was attracted to girls, and the majority of my early life crushes were on guys. But I guess I also come at it from a different angle, I've never really felt "in place" as a guy. The best way I can describe it is that for most of my life I've mentally felt like a bisexual chick that somehow ended up biologically being a dude. I've only recently started really reading about transgender / gender queer stuff so I'm not really sure where I technically "fit in" with anything or if I really even give a shit about fitting in. I've accepted that I'm just different and I enjoy it.
I've kept this shit to myself for a really, really long time and thus I've never actually opened myself up to the possibility of dating men and have always admired from afar. So I'm definitely looking forward to opening up a new chapter in life.
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Posted 24 September 2011 - 03:04 PM
Very proud of you dude. And if this is the official coming out thread, what the fuck:
Wizwars is a one hundred percent bisexual male. Maybe five or six people in my world know this. I've made little hints at it, I think I mentioned my gender confusion issues and being slightly attracted to men here but never full out admitted it until recently. Which is weird because I have a really accepting family and a sister who was in a relationship with a woman for a few years. Yet I felt weird about telling them.
Like DB I've known forever, and in reality for a long time I thought I was gay because it took quite a while before I was attracted to girls, and the majority of my early life crushes were on guys. But I guess I also come at it from a different angle, I've never really felt "in place" as a guy. The best way I can describe it is that for most of my life I've mentally felt like a bisexual chick that somehow ended up biologically being a dude. I've only recently started really reading about transgender / gender queer stuff so I'm not really sure where I technically "fit in" with anything or if I really even give a shit about fitting in. I've accepted that I'm just different and I enjoy it.
I've kept this shit to myself for a really, really long time and thus I've never actually opened myself up to the possibility of dating men and have always admired from afar. So I'm definitely looking forward to opening up a new chapter in life.
Props, wizzy! I made this thread so as to have a venue/soapbox of sorts but it is definitely not all about me. I am glad you have taken this opportunity to publicly express who you really are finally- better late than never, right? Hope you find a new partner you can be happy with soon- it all starts from here. Let's make it happen!
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Posted 24 September 2011 - 03:45 PM
Congrats DragonBurk!
It's fantastic that you're at a point where you can be this free with who you are, I'm very happy for you.
also....
Maybe it's just the QQQQ cups and the fact that you can't find your dick that's confusing you?
(cmon srsly SOMEONE had to do it)
It's fantastic that you're at a point where you can be this free with who you are, I'm very happy for you.
also....
... I think I mentioned my gender confusion issues and being slightly attracted to men here but never full out admitted it until recently.
Maybe it's just the QQQQ cups and the fact that you can't find your dick that's confusing you?
(cmon srsly SOMEONE had to do it)
nfsw
You sir, are a sociopath who gets off of insulting other people. People such as you, regardless of talent or merrit are a blight upon this world and aren't worth a single milligram of oxygen. Do the world a favor and go hang yourself you miserable, insecure, magalomaniacal bottom feeder.
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Posted 24 September 2011 - 03:48 PM
I was a skinny kid when I first discovered I had said gender confusion issues! And I've never had a problem finding my dick! It's usually in or around your dad's mouthMaybe it's just the QQQQ cups and the fact that you can't find your dick that's confusing you?
(cmon srsly SOMEONE had to do it)
(also my tits might be big but they suck and are in no way feminine.)
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Posted 24 September 2011 - 03:56 PM
DragonBurk, that's great news! I'm stoked you've had a positive experience coming out! You have lots of supportive friends, especially through the shizz, who are happy to hear this.
Coming out is awesome, because you get to enter a new chapter of your life and become more comfortable with who you are.
I know *exactly* how you feel, about everything you've said in this thread. Wondering about how many serious relationships you could've pursued by now... being able to maybe get an actual boyfriend you can take home and have things be normal with your roommates or family, etc. That's not a trivial change. But the good news is, now that you're out, I can guarantee you'll start paying A LOT less attention to the past, and much more to the present and future.
You can add me to the list of people who had no idea, but I can't say I'm surprised. Lots of people had no idea I was gay, based on my general personality and interests, and that's reinforced my understanding that there's no template for how a gay person acts/ what they're into / etc etc. I think one message that can be taken from all of this, is that there's actually a LOT of gay people out there, and it shouldn't be too surprising when anyone of any 'personality' comes out. Literally anyone on the shizz can come out and I wouldn't be surprised or think it was weird.
My mom was the first person I told in my family as well. I'm trying to remember when exactly that was... over a year ago but less than two. I had started seeing my current boyfriend, and my parents were down in philly for some sort of family gathering. After heading out from dinner and dropping my brothers off at their places, my mom was ready to take me back to my place, but I was planning at staying at my boyfriend's instead. I didn't have money for a cab on me, and also didn't feel like walking through the city (it was late), to get there. I had actually done that plenty of times- walking a couple miles through the city late at night, through sometimes not the safest blocks, just to get somewhere I didn't feel like explaining or asking to get a ride to from a friend. And it's not that I was that worried about my own safety, but I was hit with the realization how much it would totally bum my mom out if I didn't explain that to her and ask for a ride instead. She wouldn't want me taking that risk when she could help prevent it. So I was like 'uhhhh yeah by the way I wasn't planning on going home tonight...', and you can imagine the rest. Family and friends have been cool with it, everything is good!
I had talked to some shizzies before about being gay before coming out- I think the michigan crew found at first because I was hanging out with them a good amount at magfest. Of course they're cool, rikc is gay and they don't give a shit. Also, I talked to weener about it online! That was not too long before I came out, so perhaps part of our conversations started to make me feel more ready to be done with being in the closet. Thanks weener! 
Coming out is awesome, because you get to enter a new chapter of your life and become more comfortable with who you are.
I know *exactly* how you feel, about everything you've said in this thread. Wondering about how many serious relationships you could've pursued by now... being able to maybe get an actual boyfriend you can take home and have things be normal with your roommates or family, etc. That's not a trivial change. But the good news is, now that you're out, I can guarantee you'll start paying A LOT less attention to the past, and much more to the present and future.
You can add me to the list of people who had no idea, but I can't say I'm surprised. Lots of people had no idea I was gay, based on my general personality and interests, and that's reinforced my understanding that there's no template for how a gay person acts/ what they're into / etc etc. I think one message that can be taken from all of this, is that there's actually a LOT of gay people out there, and it shouldn't be too surprising when anyone of any 'personality' comes out. Literally anyone on the shizz can come out and I wouldn't be surprised or think it was weird.
My mom was the first person I told in my family as well. I'm trying to remember when exactly that was... over a year ago but less than two. I had started seeing my current boyfriend, and my parents were down in philly for some sort of family gathering. After heading out from dinner and dropping my brothers off at their places, my mom was ready to take me back to my place, but I was planning at staying at my boyfriend's instead. I didn't have money for a cab on me, and also didn't feel like walking through the city (it was late), to get there. I had actually done that plenty of times- walking a couple miles through the city late at night, through sometimes not the safest blocks, just to get somewhere I didn't feel like explaining or asking to get a ride to from a friend. And it's not that I was that worried about my own safety, but I was hit with the realization how much it would totally bum my mom out if I didn't explain that to her and ask for a ride instead. She wouldn't want me taking that risk when she could help prevent it. So I was like 'uhhhh yeah by the way I wasn't planning on going home tonight...', and you can imagine the rest. Family and friends have been cool with it, everything is good!
I had talked to some shizzies before about being gay before coming out- I think the michigan crew found at first because I was hanging out with them a good amount at magfest. Of course they're cool, rikc is gay and they don't give a shit
. Also, I talked to weener about it online! That was not too long before I came out, so perhaps part of our conversations started to make me feel more ready to be done with being in the closet. Thanks weener!
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Posted 24 September 2011 - 03:59 PM
hey, i dont know DB, but am glad to see this is the kinda place where no one looks down on coming out! im full on obsessed with women, but had some questioning periods in my life and have made out with dudes. no shame about it, eventhough sme 'open minded' people have definitely tried to be weird about it.
dont fuckin worry about what most people think!
dont fuckin worry about what most people think!
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Posted 24 September 2011 - 03:59 PM
Feel-good thread feels good. Congrats on coming out, Dragon!
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Posted 24 September 2011 - 04:39 PM
Are you sure you don't like male vaginas? Not even a little?
While we're on the topic of sex, I enjoy putting my penis into female vaginas.
Yours, for sure!
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