I recently started identifying as nonbinary, but she/her pronouns are still fine for me, they/them as well.
I've also been feeling like I don't belong in the LGBT+ community because I don't feel "gay" enough, I've mostly dated men and the women I've dated were mostly short relationships.
I'm very straight passing, but I actually prefer women; I just happened to find a man that I feel comfortable with but I still identify as bi/pan.
Anyway there's a lot of self loathing.
TBH I just want to make out with everybody.