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nEwT

Member Since 08 Aug 2005
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In Topic: GIRLS!

20 April 2019 - 01:50 PM

are you 100 years old?

In Topic: guitarra

20 April 2019 - 07:34 AM


In Topic: GIRLS!

20 April 2019 - 05:42 AM

mexicans loving tacos? go figure!

In Topic: GIRLS!

19 April 2019 - 10:47 AM

Yeah, I have tried to be as casual and relaxed as possible in my conversations, not trying to be all "hey babe wanna meet?" which isn't my style anyway. We just chat about pretty much any topic, our jobs, pets, TV shows, and stuff like that, but when the time feels right I throw the "hey it would be cool if we could talk in person" proposition. In the case of the first girl I met, it was pretty much the same day we started talking, on my profile I say I love tacos and she sent me a message saying "hey I love tacos too!" and I was like "oh nice then we should go eat some tacos!" and she was like "yeah sounds great!" and we met the next day, and we had a very nice chat in person and are definitely gonna meet again. In other cases, after asking if they would like to meet, they say "it would be cool but I would like to chat a little more and get to know you better before we do" and that's fine too as you say.

To be honest, I'm not really looking for a serious, long term relationship right now. I divorced a year and a half ago (after an almost 6-year-long relationship) and then went immediately straight into another relationship (it was a long distance thing) which sadly ended a couple months ago, so right now I just want to meet new people on this new city (which I didn't do before because of the long distance relationship I mentioned) and not rush things. I want to be as honest as possible about this with them but I'm not sure if it's something you talk about as soon as you meet them (online or in person) or if you first wait to see if there is some sort of connection or mutual interest before talking about it. Of course, I would also like to know what THEY expect.

This first (and only so far) girl I met, she is really nice and easygoing and we share a lot of interests, I like her and she seems to be into me too, but once again, I don't want to rush things or jump straight into another relationship before giving myself some time to meet more people. It is easy to get infatuated with someone at first and I want to keep my mind as clear and cool as possible.

Dating can be complicated :(

In Topic: GIRLS!

19 April 2019 - 09:13 AM

Was it online or in person?

I have been using Facebook's dating feature for the past 2 weeks and it has been a very nice experience so far. Is my first foray into online dating.

Question: is it wrong to go out with several girls at the same time? I guess it should be make clear to them that you are meeting other people and see if they are cool with it. So far I have only met with one of them but have been chatting with a few more and it seems all of them are interested in meeting in person. I guess it is a given that most if not all of them are also seeing other people.

What's your experience regarding this you guys?