Titty Bars Are Lame
#1
Posted 19 January 2007 - 01:08 PM
I was talking to someone about strip clubs/tittybars whatever you wanna call em. I said that i felt that men/women who go to these places are abusing male privlege in society and that i feel like these types of places hurt human beings abilities to see other people as other people (it goes both ways - destroying human relationships because the dancers see the men in the club as money and the men in the club see the dancers as sexual objects only).
the guy i was talking with says he had ever right to go the clubs (which he legally does) but then called the women who work there (providing him with his 'right') whores. ?????
don't defend your 'right' to go there and then call the dancers whores!!!!
then he got all mad because he felt like he was being taken advantage financially by going there. and he didn't like it when people pretended to like him. lame-o....
i am wondering who (if anyone) is getting taken advantage of in these situations.
I don't know - something about strip clubs bothers me. I would rather see prostitution legalized so the women were well-cared for and safe, than strip clubs being legal. the dancers aren't unionized and dancing in those stupid shoes causes all sorts of back problems, not to mention the dangers of breast implants...
i also don't know how a bunch of guys can sit around eachother with boners and not seem to mind.
I'm just turned off by people who go there....i don't know.
#2
Posted 19 January 2007 - 02:25 PM
#3
Posted 19 January 2007 - 02:46 PM
personally i am a big fan of divas.Have you ever been to Teasers?
well, not just divas....divas platinum. seriously...there are 3 divas on mcdowell between like 27th ave and 40th street and ONE of them is of platinum status.......
#4
Posted 19 January 2007 - 02:47 PM
#5
Posted 19 January 2007 - 02:53 PM
personally i am a big fan of divas.
Have you ever been to Teasers?
well, not just divas....divas platinum. seriously...there are 3 divas on mcdowell between like 27th ave and 40th street and ONE of them is of platinum status.......
there is a divas on mcdowell just west of 35th ave as well.
my first experience at the strip club was very much like my experience as a kid in juarez, mexico. except instead of little kids bothering you for money, it's girls in their underwear.
#6
Posted 19 January 2007 - 03:15 PM
There are lots of reasons a person could be uncomfortable about those places...
I, personally, just prefer to exploit women in the privacy of my own home.
"Real love amounts to withholding the truth, even when you're offered the perfect opportunity to hurt someone's feelings." - DS
"one persons harassment, is just another person trying to get there shit back, ever think-a that?"
"THIS JUST IN: SHANE KENNEDY LIKES NOTHING.
SHOCKER." - Mig50
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss
#7
Posted 19 January 2007 - 03:22 PM
I like to do shameful things in private...with one person I really like (hopefully).....and without the Whitesnake....I prefer a nice instrumental Chet Baker LP.
Oh, yeah....and shaking boobies make me giggle like a motherfucker...
"Real love amounts to withholding the truth, even when you're offered the perfect opportunity to hurt someone's feelings." - DS
"one persons harassment, is just another person trying to get there shit back, ever think-a that?"
"THIS JUST IN: SHANE KENNEDY LIKES NOTHING.
SHOCKER." - Mig50
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss
#8
Posted 19 January 2007 - 03:25 PM
I'm just turned off by people who go there....i don't know.
Um....most of your friends go to tittie bars, or have, or don't see a problem with it....
"Real love amounts to withholding the truth, even when you're offered the perfect opportunity to hurt someone's feelings." - DS
"one persons harassment, is just another person trying to get there shit back, ever think-a that?"
"THIS JUST IN: SHANE KENNEDY LIKES NOTHING.
SHOCKER." - Mig50
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss
#9
Posted 19 January 2007 - 03:29 PM
I, personally, just prefer to exploit women in the privacy of my own home.
thank you!
I've actually never been to a titty bar so I guess I am kinda biased on my opinion of them - but my cousin was a dancer for a long time in orlando and was always telling me horrible stories...she ended up developing a really bad drug habit and married the bouncer at one of her clubs....such is life...
i guess they should still be legal (gotta pay those bills ya'll) but I am sticking to my theory that they are gross.
no worries HFE - non of my friends turn me on
#10
Posted 19 January 2007 - 03:35 PM
and, by anytime, I mean...y'know...anytime...
"Real love amounts to withholding the truth, even when you're offered the perfect opportunity to hurt someone's feelings." - DS
"one persons harassment, is just another person trying to get there shit back, ever think-a that?"
"THIS JUST IN: SHANE KENNEDY LIKES NOTHING.
SHOCKER." - Mig50
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss
#11
Posted 19 January 2007 - 04:04 PM
#12
Posted 19 January 2007 - 04:14 PM
that was seven years ago
oh wait i went to one with jeff and arron after we played 2 hours before (fuck you har mar,not quite the super star) trail of dead. if memory serves, i know we were at the old nitas at least
but yea not since then
-trunkspaceAll the time when I tell people what I do they say, "Oh I don't understand art, I can't even draw." (or worse, "I only like art I can understand.") Well, ya know what, I don't know how to make a car, but I sure appreciate being able to drive one.
#13
Posted 19 January 2007 - 04:26 PM
and what's the big deal about boobies anyways???
no idea...I guess they...
I dunno...but they look funny bouncing around, nothing sexy about it...
to me...
I think it has to do with degradation, the whole tittie bar thing....perhaps, mutual...
I dunno....
I understand prostitution more than I do boobie bars.
A friend of mine told me that it's the most honest relationship he's ever had with a woman.
"Real love amounts to withholding the truth, even when you're offered the perfect opportunity to hurt someone's feelings." - DS
"one persons harassment, is just another person trying to get there shit back, ever think-a that?"
"THIS JUST IN: SHANE KENNEDY LIKES NOTHING.
SHOCKER." - Mig50
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss
#14
Posted 19 January 2007 - 04:28 PM
I could tell you some stories, Jacki.
#15
Posted 19 January 2007 - 05:53 PM
jeff, me, AND leslieoh wait i went to one with jeff and arron after we played 2 hours before (fuck you har mar,not quite the super star) trail of dead. if memory serves, i know we were at the old nitas at least
but yea not since then
not sure who else went, but i think someone else must have
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