i agree, but i can only deal with so much guilt for being a white, young, male that was born in the usa (springsteen style)it's hard to not be a hater towards men when learning about the history of women's equality movements. It's also hard to hear about fucked up shit that men did/do when you are a man. Just like I find it hard to not get defensive about myself when i get reminded of my "white privilege" in society. Or my straight privileges.
There are a lot of haters out there (male and female) no doubt. Hating is way easier to do.
i recommend internalizing the guilt and then abusing drugs and alcohol as an escape mechanism.