breaking up sucks. wish it could more simple, straight forward. this is this, that is that kind of thing.
c'est la vie I suppose. . .
b.r.e.a.k.i.n.g. u.p.
Started by thundertortoise, Jan 06 2011 04:36 AM
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Posted 06 January 2011 - 04:36 AM
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Posted 06 January 2011 - 07:17 AM
there needs to be a "depends." on if you're the dumper or the dumped. although it probably sucks either way. just more for one person than the other.
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Posted 06 January 2011 - 08:07 AM
there needs to be a "depends." on if you're the dumper or the dumped. although it probably sucks either way. just more for one person than the other.
i agree that it depends.
i disagree that it sucks either way. i've actually celebrated after breaking up. in fact, i've even celebrated after being dumped. it was one of those scenarios where i wanted it to end, badly, but it was significantly more complicated than just saying "hey, i'm out!" so she did it for me, and i was STOKED.
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Posted 06 January 2011 - 08:30 AM
i disagree that it sucks either way. i've actually celebrated after breaking up.
the "sucks either way" is mostly due to having to split up possessions, someone has to move out, you have to tell everyone and explain the whole thing (or at least have a million people ask), it's usually awkward when you run into them later, etc.. it doesn't always have to suck but the overall experience, while it can be a relief, is usually unpleasant.
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Posted 06 January 2011 - 10:17 AM
i hate it!
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Posted 06 January 2011 - 10:56 AM
i hate it!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tbad22CKlB4
totally had this ready to cut and paste earlier today but didn't have my speakers hooked up and didn't want to link the wrong thing. nice work.
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Posted 06 January 2011 - 11:06 AM
it's hard to do
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Posted 06 January 2011 - 01:53 PM
it's hard to do
But (in the most cases) necessary.
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Posted 06 January 2011 - 02:32 PM
When it comes to some bands and certain couples they should look into breaking up much sooner....
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Posted 06 January 2011 - 10:47 PM
^ !
Breaking up is not as awesome as breaking wind.
Breaking up is not as awesome as breaking wind.
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Posted 06 January 2011 - 11:16 PM
There is a sense of relief, agreed. Overall better but still some suckiness involved.
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Posted 07 January 2011 - 01:58 AM
I thought it really sucked when the space shuttle Columbia broke-up during re-entry.
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Posted 07 January 2011 - 04:25 AM
I thought it really sucked when the space shuttle Columbia broke-up during re-entry.
word.
unrelated: how long does it take before the dumb jealousy part goes away?
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Posted 07 January 2011 - 07:56 AM
It sucks big time after being in a relation for 10 years and one day without any idea your partner tells you it's over, yes it takes a lot of soul searching and dealing with all the emotions and I don't think you ever recoup 100% still have feelings for that person. But it is what it is, and life goes on. IT STILL SUCKS
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Posted 07 January 2011 - 08:54 AM
it sucks when you are emotionally invested.
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