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[Jacki O.]

i went on an okstupid date last night. it was fun!

[jeremx]

i went on an okstupid date last night. it was fun!

didja bang'r?

[Jacki O.]

nope
just coffee and convo

i just had like 3 dates this week so i like to think of myself as quite the ladypimp.

[jeremx]

i just had like 3 dates this week so i like to think of myself as quite the ladypimp.

keep that pimp hand strong, playa.

[Innk]

he takes photos at motorcross events and never does drugs.

eep. 0 for 2.

online dating is never the answer.

ok ok. wheelchair guy I guess, but only if his junk works.

Holy fuck... I have seen your avatar like 10 times.. I just realized they were boobs... hilarious. Yeah online dating gets worse as you get older...

[Lt. Dizzle!]

talking to a lovely lady on the site... she claims she can kick anyone's ass at Perfect Dark. i might just have to take her up on that challenge and bust out my rusty old n64 skillz

[shaunsavage]

^ sounds like a winner.

[Lt. Dizzle!]

ok, so that lady stopped messaging me, wtf. anyway, i've messaged a few ladies, they've seen my profile and not messaged back... you guys wanna look at it see what's wrong?

[differently biotic]

do you have to have a profile to see?

[Jacki O.]

ok, so that lady stopped messaging me, wtf. anyway, i've messaged a few ladies, they've seen my profile and not messaged back... you guys wanna look at it see what's wrong?

yah let's see it

[Lt. Dizzle!]

okcupid.com/profile/negron17

sorry i took a bit to answer, i was at work.

[ladydemon]

Crop all the photos to only your image. And maybe one with a real smile.

[Jacki O.]

hmm not too bad, my only suggestion is that i would lay off the "i'm a nerd" stuff, once is good enough, we can tell you're a nerdtastic duders by your music movie and book interests.
you mention being a nerd or a geek 5 times in your profile.

you gotta sell your nerdom to the ladies, make it cool. you're a cool nerd, not a live-in-my-parents-basement-and-eat-cheetohs-all-day-while-playing-WOW type of nerd.

the first sentence - Simple guy whose an enormous nerd. (should it be "who's" ?...i am horrible at grammar...) Makes me lose my lady boner a little bit right off the bat, only because it sounds like you dont have a too high opinion of yourself. nothing is more attractive than self-confidence, even if it's faked 99% of the time. Not that you should be all "im so much better than everyone else" but you know...

Why would a lady want to talk to you? You have good taste in music and books, you have good friends, you work hard, you're creative, you like having fun, etc etc. you're a cool dude and you're looking for a cool chick to hang out with. dont use those generic words but you gotta sell it like that.

overall it's not too bad, your photos are good, you are funny, and your answers aren't creepy.

[mig50]

you should mention steve winwood more.

it also helps to if your main profile picture includes metalheadmike.

[Lt. Dizzle!]

i think i've only met that guy ONCE, at m8 and he was incredibly drunk...

thanks everyone for the helpful pointers

i think the pictures are fine, i kinda like having my friends in there cuz if you date me, i come in a package deal, you date me you get my friends too. cuz i'm nobody without them. but i should change things around in my profile.