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[raubhimself]

http://twitter.com/#!/horse_ebooks

[raubhimself]

http://okcenemies.tumblr.com/

oh my goodness

[Rocquero]

Thanks, Raub. That perfectly blends my two loves: horrible people and looking at horrible people!

[Tony]

http://okcenemies.tumblr.com/

wow. well, now i know what i'm doing at work tomorrow.

[mothrock]

I feel like that tumblr only exists because it is all creepy guys. There are also lots of weird ladies on OKC.

[raubhimself]

I feel like that tumblr only exists because it is all creepy guys. There are also lots of weird ladies on OKC.

There is one lady on there at least.

[Rocquero]

As my dad always said, "Creepy guys are where the money is, son."

Let that be a lesson to you.

[mothrock]

As my dad always said, "Creepy guys are where the money is, son."

Let that be a lesson to you.

touche.

lesson accepted.

[Jacki O.]

i love that blog!

this experiment was pretty hilarious:

Dudes on the Internet Will Try to Bang You Even if You Act Completely Batshit


Meet "Marla." "Marla" is the OKCupid alterego of Alyssa Kramer, a Philadelphia-area blogger (and very funny lady) who dared venture to answer the question "Just how fucking batty does a gal have to get before guys on the internet stop trying to fuck her?"

Kramer says she set some ground rules— first, no starting conversations. Any and all interactions must occur at the behest of the male trying to get in on the Marla action. Second, Marla wasn't to ask any questions to further the conversation; she wanted to be an unpleasant, totally bonkers-acting conversational dud. And third, if a person who seemed genuinely interested in getting to know her messaged her, she didn't string him along. Her picture didn't show her face or any of the parts of her that Fergie might call Lovely Lady Lumps — it was just her shoulder. Nothing provocative.

Marla didn't make any illusions about being a dazzling lady of urbanity and taste. Under her "self summary," she wrote,

hi im marla searching for someone special someone cute age 26-72. i dont smoke cig. Dont drink. Socialy i will. Or in basement. like to no more lets get 2gether 2 watch a movie n see how it goes im a nice gurl so if your serious im f'in serious. Plz dont smoke. I smoke to keep my stress down n I have a big dog named Booty so if u dont like dogs move on hes the king lol peace marla

Marla's typical Friday night activities include only "drinkin," her favorite food is "4 sure hot pockets" and she refers to her body type as "used up." Not the stuff of the Maxim Hot 100.

But— surprise — that doesn't matter to guys on the internet who want to get laid! At all! Men still found Marla irresistible. One conversation went thusly,



They were undaunted by feigned constipation...

Bachelor #2: Hi, how are you?
Marla: not 2 good been constipated 4 like days and days lol
B2: Anal is supposed to help with that!

[BornInCrimson]

But— surprise — that doesn't matter to guys on the internet who want to get laid! At all! Men still found Marla irresistible. One conversation went thusly,

Here is the other side of that coin!

I don't entirely agree with the guy's sentiments but I felt like balancing it out

[joe.distort]

while i agree with most feminist-tilting things,there is an angle to a lot of the recent 'outrages' that ignores one thing: is it so bad that dudes want sex? i mean, isnt that kind of a genetic reason why we are all still around? dont get me wrong, a lot of the shit that people get judgemental about is still pretty stupid to me and DUDE, TITS is dumb...but i mean, male sex drive has always been like this. its starting to seem more and more like the new version of 80s stand up 'eh, my wife hates the sex. am i right?'

i might not be making a point well here.

[Jacki O.]

But— surprise — that doesn't matter to guys on the internet who want to get laid! At all! Men still found Marla irresistible. One conversation went thusly,

Here is the other side of that coin!

I don't entirely agree with the guy's sentiments but I felt like balancing it out

that's pretty funny, but 99% of the guys sending women creepy message on okcupid are totally creepy and not attractive

and i dont think it's that men wanting sex is bad, i think it's that this is a forum for dating and unless a women has checked the "just looking for sex" box on her profile, then it is totally appropriate to make fun of the men who send her creepy sex messages.

that's my take

put up a fake female profile on okcupid and see what happens...

[Mary]

Couple of things I noticed while over there not for dating but getting messaged about it anyway, and listening to other chicks complain:

A lot of guys (not all of 'em) think that if a lady is single and looking online, she must be just like a lot of guys (not all of 'em) and is ready to entirely dispense with the preliminaries. It's like acknowledging in words that she wants to meet somebody, instead of just standing around smiling like an idiot in public, means she's easy(er). So they jump straight to creepy and rude. It's not that men are awful for wanting sex (it's one of your better qualities, IMO), it's just that a lot of women reeeeally want some getting-to-know-you convo first, which has been a pain, I'm sure, for thousands of years, and will continue to be a pain.

Maybe I already said this here a year or so ago, but good God, it's astonishing how awful the responses are if a woman sends a man a "no, thanks" message. It can get so abusive that a lot of them just skip it.

Annoying but true.

[Jadbgjoka]

Cover me, I'm going in.

 

Also, since a bunch of strangers with zero-consequences come in here from time to time, I'd like to ask for some feed back.

 

I haven't been terribly active on this in the past, but I occasionally get messages from girls browsing who just say they like my profile. I've responded with a profile related (theirs) compliment and expand on something to allow the conversation to go on if they're looking for more, but I then don't get follow-up responses. As for specifics, I keep it polite and friendly.

 

Is it common practice on sites like these to scope people and message them with no interest? Or should I be changing things up a bit?

[MrAwesome]

I met a furry from this website.