i mean, you can separate the sex organ from the person but thats not what this is about, and that requires tools.
Truth.
And it's messy as hell.
As I'm reading this thread, I don't understand why this fellow doesn't take the girl to the Deftones concert and have intercourse with her on stage. Isn't that part of every concert? I've never seen the Deftones, so maybe their show isn't fuck-worthy. Either way, it seems like a missed opportunity for both parties.