Posted 22 October 2010 - 10:26 AM
Gemini Dude:
He is always in transit - from one place to another, one person to another, one vocation to another. Restless, nervous, he is not content to live one day at a time, but will try to compress a week or a month into a day and to live on several different levels at once.
Whatever he is doing at the moment, he yearns to do something else. He thrives on contradictions. You can't even be sure when he likes you, for his mode of expression is always so contradictory. If he doesn't seem to know you are alive, he's probably intensely aware of your existence. If he is overly solicitous and attentive, he probably couldn't care less. Whatever his feeling, his first instinct is to camouflage it.
He can't stand schedules. He wont be a prisoner of the clock.
He is unusually intelligent and has a clever gift of gab. He will juggle several topics, keeping them all in the air at the same time.
Don't try to win a verbal battle with him. His highly articulate and words are weapons he can wield with devastating effect.
He is free flowing, spontaneous, and highly volatile. This gives an impression of electric magnetism rahter than a lack of control.
He is a fascinating, many-sided intellectual man, constantly and almost painfully aware of how people react to him.
His enthusiasm results in his tackling to many enterprises and spreading himself too thin. He will display great initiative in launching a project. The problem is to keep on course.
He doesn't react well to failure. He is all too eager to blame himself to trigger depressed emotions in which the failure confirms his secret feeling of inadequacy. However these moods don't last long.
He's interested in games, hobbies, and all manner of diversion. He loves to travel. He is a hard worker, but only for a short stretch.
He needs frequent intervals, vacations, breaks in routine. Fundamentally he is much more interested hobbies and recreation than in work of any kind.
He loves being in love and will try to get it where he can find it. But he also seeks his freedom and will not submerge his ego to please any woman. He is also easily bored by routine and when subjected to it is likely to become hostile and seek out quarrels. He always must establish his intellectual superiority. If a woman accepts this too easily he will be frustrated. There has to be some resistance , some protest or struggle.
His best role in business is a troubleshooter or business consultant, where the steady stream of new problems will keep him engrossed and he won't have to bother himself with seeing to his orders are carried out. Gemini males like to plan the strategy and leave the day-to-day tactics to others.
He has difficulty holding on to money. Possessions slip through is grasp. When he has too much money, he is uncomfortable and tries rid himself of it. He finds security only in insecurity.
Many people think he has captured the spirit of youth, with its endless vitality, curiosity, and love of fun. He is called the Peter Pan of the zodiac because he never seems to grow up.
His emotions are often shallow. The future with him is uncertain; the present is undeniably fun.
His Sex Life:
You wont find him breathing heavily. He isn't demanding or passionate. He plays a dual role - the one making love and the one watching, participant and voyeur. If he chooses, he can work any partner into the mood, for he knows exactly how to evoke the right response.
The idea rather than the act attracts him; not so much the pleasure derived from sexual activity as what psychologists call apperception - the ability to perceive how he is perceiving, thus while doing, he is also satisfying his inquisitiveness as to how it is being done. He is always both the doer and the onlooker.
He prefers sex with the lights on and one of his favorite stimuli is to have mirrors set up so he can see the action. Gemini males particularly like to screen stag movies while copulating. He will then either emulate the action on the screen or experiment with his partner in an attempt to go beyond it.
He warms up gradually. Cunnilingus isn't his specialty or his forte, and he isn't turned on fellatio, but he enjoys the other preliminaries.
Coitus is likely to be fast and furious. Gemini, even when he has had what he wants is two minds as to whether it was really worthwhile.
He likes make love just about anywhere and is glib enough to talk his way into almost any woman's bed. But his performance rating only fair, for he tends to be more interested in satisfying himself, or his curiosity than his partner. Not too many woman complain, even if they sometimes suspect they are mere grist to the mill of experience for he is more than adequate in the areas of lovemaking that are so often neglected by other males. He tells a woman exactly what she wants to hear, creates a special aura of excitement and romance and that, more than sheer physical excitement makes her look forward to a return match.
Group sex is a particular favorite, including bisexuality for he enjoys the multiple and varied opportunities it affords. A favorite variant is for him to make love to one partner while another masturbates in front him.
Gemini is intrigued by gadgets. He will experiment with hard-on pills, penis extenders, sprays to deaden nerves and delay ejaculation and so called orgy oils.
Because he is pulled in two directions (the sign of the twins) he has a tendency towards bisexuality. Some, while retaining their heterosexual status, become transvestites, satisfying their duality of desire by wearing woman's clothes and makeup.
His quest for more and more unusual forms of gratification inclines him toward violent forms of sadism in which there is always a clearly delineated master and slave relationship. Male Gemini is strongly attracted to prostitutes of the cheapest kind, who will do anything to satisfy a customer's bizarre taste for experimentation.
I couldn't get get down or co-habit with him any other way. Heh!
